Tuesday, February 4, 2014

February’s Cross Dressers Wives Newsletter 2014

Topic: Love & Valentines…

Dee’s Corner…
 
What’s love got to do with it? Many believe LOVE can conquer all. Others, like many cross dresser’s wives aren’t so sure.  Just because they love their husbands - that does not mean they are happy.  Should they stay- no matter what? - Even though they feel like they are walking on eggshells everyday? If they love each other and are happy - despite the extra challenges of being married to a cross dresser - then all is well. However is love enough for the rest of us?
 
What is love? The denotation of love is…1love noun \ˈləv\
:  a feeling of strong or constant affection for a person
:  attraction that includes sexual desire:  the strong affection felt by people who have a romantic relationship
:  a person you love in a romantic way
 
 
The connotation of love is a mixture of wonderment, kindness, angelic, compassion
and the list is endless.
 
Love is many things. One thing is for sure and we ALL know this to be true - It should not hurt.

Of course, all marriages/partnerships etc. have challenges - but NOTHING like what most cross dresses wives experience.
 
May you love yourself enough to take good care of yourself. Too many of us, taking care of ourselves is finding love in our marriages/partners. And if you cannot find love in your marriage, many you find other ways of bringing love into your lives. It all boils down to a personal choice and Cupid too (maybe).
 
What’s Love got to do with it? EVERYTHING. Happy Valentine’s Day To All Of You!
 
Xoxo,
Dee A Levy

The Cross Dresser’s Wife * Our Secret Lives –(5 stories from our Forum available on Amazon.com).
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Tim’s Corner

Many of you know how fortunate we are to have an extraordinary advisor to CDW and CDH working with us. He has helped so many in so many different ways. 

Please feel free to e-mail him at: timcdfamilyadvisor@yahoo.com!
 
We Love and Appreciate you Tim!!!
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Questionnaire III is being constructed and we need your help again to complete more groundbreaking research on our needs as cross dressers wives. We want your input.
 
What do you want to learn more about and why?
 
Do you see a correlation to your current state of health as it relates to the being a cross dresser’s wife? Many wives have been diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). Furthermore, others have shared that they get more migraines, stress related illnesses that break down some of their immune systems because of the level of stress 
so many of us go through, by living with a BIG secret.
 
Too frequently, there are many of us that had undergone some serious illnesses at young ages (like heart attack, strokes, etc.).  We are going to explore this serious issue 
because we do experience a lot of STRESS.
 
Please let us know about your health concerns (if any).
 
Also-we are eager to learn what you want to know more about. You are the EXPERTS 
and the GROUNDBREAKERS! Thank you in advance for your much needed cooperation!
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GREAT NEWS: Questionnaire II UPDATE: It is completed! More news about the 
results in 2014!!! We have a surprise coming!
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HOTLINE  
 
Cross Dressers Wives NPO offers live telephone consultation services 
With The Founder. She holds a BA in Women Studies, an M.A. in Social Sciences, 
and has worked with thousands of cross dressers’ wives. The Founder is not a licensed therapist; she is a former cross dresser’s wife. 
 
Additionally, Dee A Levy also consults with many cross dressers- most seeking advice on how to disclose their secret to their clueless wives.  Please book your Hotline consultation by contacting cdwives@gmail.com.
 
 The basic fee is $50 an hour. The first 30 minutes are free.  
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 HOTLINE TESTIMONIALS 
 
“I have been in counseling for years and things only got worse. After talking to Dee, 
I realized she could help me because she understood the problem and my challenges. Thank you Dee.”
 
“When I read the book with my cross dressing husband, we both cried! It was so helpful
 to first read the book- then consult with Dee” “ understood how much my husbands 
CD hurt me so much. I was relieved.”
 
 “You are the only person I trust” 
 
“My therapist does not understand me but your Forum does”  
 
"You have no idea. You’ve saved my life.”  
 
"I cannot tell you how blessed I felt to have someone I could talk to about this that has 
shared this experience."  
 
"The advice I received from the Founder about setting boundaries was a big help to my marriage."  
 
"The hour I spent speaking with you made me feel better than the year I spent in therapy." 

 "After my consultation, I realized my therapist was not the expert on cross dressers’ 
wives - the Founder is."  
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DONATIONS & VOLUNTEERS 
 
We are a charitable, non-for profit organization. 
 
All donations are tax deductible. Presently, we rely almost solely on donations and grants 
to support our much-needed services. In difficult financial times, funds are short, limiting 
our ability to expand our Hotline and international outreach resources. 
 
Every dollar we raise can assist Cross Dressers Wives NPO develop worldwide programs for cross dressers wives seeking assistance and support.  
 
 
Please visit our links to purchase our book via PayPal only, make a financial contribution, 
or volunteer your services to help us assist women in dire need of support, education, acceptance, understanding, compassion, and guidance.  Many of us have lived in 
complete silence, denial, and guilt. This does not come without enormous 
consequences. 

Sometimes, it is simply comforting to know that we are not alone.  
 
 
There are millions of us in the United States and throughout the world whose unique 
needs must be met. All contributions are greatly appreciated.  For privacy purposes, donations made by check may be made payable to ‘CDW’ Or ‘CROSS DRESSERS WIVES.’ Credit card donations made via PayPal appear as ‘CDW.’
 
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Inspirational Quote…

"One loyal friend is worth 10 thousand relatives."     Euripides
 
 
 
 

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