Sunday, October 31, 2010

Cross Dresser’s Wives November’s Newsletter 2010 Topic For The Month – Revenge? Think twice…

Over the years, there have been forum posts about getting revenge on someone’s cross dressing husband or ex-husband. “Sweet is revenge,” said the infamous Lord Byron, author of Don Juan.

According to many social researchers, most people’s fantasies involving revenge towards someone who has betrayed them results in a satisfied emotional state. However, the results of many tests indicate that if one chooses to act on vengeful thoughts, it is not gratifying. Instead, revenge can and often does make people feel worse. Many believe forgiveness is divine…

If a cross dresser’s wife is seeking revenge, living well is the best form! So, live well ladies!

Blessings,
The Founder

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FREE PHONE CONSULTATION

We are offering a free 15-minute phone consultation. In April, we began Consultation Services with The Founder. She holds a BA in Women Studies, an M.A. in Social Sciences, and has worked with over one thousand cross dressers wives. She is not a licensed therapist, she is a former cross dresser’s wife. Please book your free 15-minute phone consultation by contacting cdwives@gmail.com. The basic fee is $50 an hour.

CONSULTATION TESTIMONIALS

"...the hour I spent speaking with you made me feel better than the year I spent in therapy."

"...after my consultation with the founder, I realized my therapist was not the expert on cross dressers wives - the founder was."

"…the advice I received from the founder about setting boundaries was a big help to my marriage."

"Thank you founder for providing much needed resources for me."

"...I cannot tell you how blessed I felt to have someone I could talk to about this that has shared this experience."

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DONATIONS AND VOLUNTEERS

We are a charitable, nonprofit organization. All donations are tax deductible. We rely solely on donations and grants to support our much-needed services. During these difficult financial times, funds are short, limiting our ability to expand and help those in need. Every dollar we raise can assist Cross Dressers Wives NPO develop outreach programs for worldwide cross dressers wives who seek assistance and support. Please visit our links to make a contribution or volunteer your services to help us assist these women who are in dire need of support, education, acceptance, understanding, compassion and guidance. Many of us have lived in complete silence, denial and guilt. This has not come without enormous consequences. It is comforting to know that we are not alone! There are millions of us in the United States and throughout the world whose unique needs must be met. Any contributions will be greatly appreciated. Only other cross dressers wives have ever walked in our "high heels" (except for many of our cross dressing husbands.) A sense of humor may often be essential for our survival.

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BOOK UPDATE

Dear Authors,

Again, many thanks to you, our contributing authors, for sharing your brave stories. Guess what? We just received a commitment for an additional story! In addition, queries have been sent regarding someone inspirational to write our Forward. We are still open to suggestions. All in all, we are more convinced than ever that our end result will be a powerful and enlightening tome. We are steadily getting closer to publication!

In addition, we would like to reiterate that every means possible is being taken to ensure anonymity; all identities of those involved are indeed well camouflaged. To repeat, it is not the intention of the upcoming book(s) to disparage, reveal, or “out” anyone, only to share the emotional tunnels dug in order for these wives to survive. By sharing with others like us and not like us, it is our hope to cast more understanding on this issue. Truly horrifying twists and turns can await the unwitting cross dresser’s wife if the secret is buried too deep. It should not have to be this way.

Stay tuned for updates on our sure to be best-selling book about our secret lives as cross dressers wives!

With blessings and gratitude,
The Founder

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INSPIRATIONAL QUOTE

“I have the courage to focus on beauty even in the midst of pain.” (Sue Patton Thoele’s The Woman’s Book Of Courage, p. 231).

Friday, October 1, 2010

Cross Dresser’s Wives October’s Newsletter 2010 Topic For The Month - Halloween

Since our inception, Cross Dresser’s Wives has received over 1000 responses to our Questionnaire. Question #4 asks ‘Looking back, what signs did you miss or ignore prior to discovering your partner was a cross-dresser?’ Overwhelmingly, many cross dresser’s wives responded that their husbands insisted on dressing up as women every year. However, cross dressers are far from a monolithic group; NOT all men who wear female costumes on Halloween are cross dressers. However, it is a significant night for many cross dressers. Halloween provides them with the freedom of dressing up as they wish while still keeping their secret.


Trick or Treat?

The Founder


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FREE PHONE CONSULTATION


We are offering a free 15-minute phone consultation. In April, we began Consultation Services with The Founder. She holds a BA in Women Studies, an M.A. in Social Sciences, and has worked with over one thousand cross dressers wives. She is not a licensed therapist, she is a former cross dresser’s wife. Please book your free 15-minute phone consultation by contacting cdwives@gmail.com. Our basic fee is $50 an hour.



CONSULTATION TESTIMONIALS


"...the hour I spent speaking with you made me feel better than the year I spent in therapy."



"...after my consultation with the founder, I realized my therapist was not the expert on cross dressers wives - the founder was."



"…the advice I received from the founder about setting boundaries was a big help to my marriage."



"Thank you founder for providing much needed resources for me."



"...I cannot tell you how blessed I felt to have someone I could talk to about this that has shared this experience."



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DONATIONS AND VOLUNTEERS



We are a charitable, nonprofit organization. All donations are tax deductible. We rely solely on donations and grants to support our much-needed services. During these difficult financial times, funds are short, limiting our ability to expand and help those in need. Every dollar we raise can assist Cross Dressers Wives NPO develop outreach programs for worldwide cross dressers wives who seek assistance and support. Please visit our links to make a contribution or volunteer your services to help us assist these women who are in dire need of support, education, acceptance, understanding, compassion and guidance. Many of us have lived in complete silence, denial and guilt. This has not come without enormous consequences. It is comforting to know that we are not alone! There are millions of us in the United States and throughout the world whose unique needs must be met. Any contributions will be greatly appreciated. Only other cross dressers wives have ever walked in our "high heels" (except for many of our cross dressing husbands.) A sense of humor may often be essential for our survival.



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BOOK UPDATE



Dear Authors,



Again, many thanks to you, our contributing authors, for sharing your brave stories. We are moving full speed ahead towards publication. Our goal is closer than ever!



After multiple consultations with our online publisher, we have been advised that the book is still a few months away from being published. We have been working diligently on every phase of the book to ensure it achieves its creative zenith.



Additionally, we are delighted to announce that we have received yet another cross dresser’s wife’s story. This additional narrative will surely buttress the book.



Stay tuned for updates on this much-anticipated collection of stories about our secret lives as cross dressers wives.



With blessings and gratitude,

The Founder



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INSPIRATIONAL QUOTE



“Women are like tea bags. They don’t know how strong they are until they get into hot water.” Eleanor Roosevelt (1884 – 1962)

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