Monday, December 16, 2013

Cross Dressers Wives December 2013 - Happy Holidays!!

               Topic for the Month: Bridges Forum

Dee’s Corner…

Happy Holidays to everyone!!! May Santa be very good to all of you & yours-except may he lay off on the lingerie gifts! LOL!  

Ladies, your contributions impact the direction of the Forum. You express what you are experiencing, feelings, fears and valid concerns. Together we share tools and skills to deal with our cross dressing husbands or ex’s.  The Forum is our safe haven-it is solely for CDW-and yes at times some CDH come on here- some for good intentions-others to share-and some just try to aggravate us but judging us and our decisions. Nonetheless it is for CD wives only and will remain so- it is our safe haven.

Years ago, this non profit, Cross Dressers Wives, created an additional forum on this same website called Bridges. It was specifically supposed to be (key words supposed to) be a safe place where CDW and CDH could RESPECTFULLY share their opinions, stories, tools, skills, experiences. It was left up for a few months but was more or less it turned into a boxing ring, with no winners and lots of bruises.

Some CDH are more likely to share with us some information that could be useful as long as we treat them with respect too. This is not US AGAINST THEM. The goal is to respectively exchange information- let us learn from each other…and may they learn what cross dressing can do to a marriage…

Please let me know your thoughts on this Bridge Forum.

Enjoy your holidays!

Warmly,
Dee A Levy, MA
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Tim’s corner…

One CDW has asked us to print her thoughts on Tim, this non profit’s family cross dressing advisor…

” Tim thank you so much for help. Your wisdom and knowledge is beyond anything I could ever expected. You opened my eyes and my husbands I don't know how it will end but I know I am going to be ok thank you again.”

We love you Tim!

Dee, the CDW & the CDH you have helped!


Questionnaire II UPDATE: It is completed! More news about the results in 2014!!!
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HOTLINE  

Cross Dressers Wives NPO offers live telephone consultation services 
with The Founder. She holds a BA in Women Studies, an M.A. in Social Sciences, 
and has worked with thousands of cross dressers’ wives. The Founder is not 
a licensed therapist; she is a former cross dresser’s wife. 

Additionally, Dee A Levy also consults with many cross dressers- most seeking advice on how to disclose their secret to their clueless wives.  Please book your Hotline consultation by contacting cdwives@gmail.com.

 The basic fee is $50 an hour. The first 30 minutes are free.  
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 HOTLINE TESTIMONIALS 

“I have been in counseling for years and things only got worse. After talking to Dee, I realized she could help me because she understood the problem and my challenges. Thank you Dee.”

“When I read the book with my cross dressing husband, we both cried! It was so helpful to first read the book- then consult with Dee” “ understood how much my husbands CD hurt me so much. I was relieved.”

 “You are the only person I trust” 

“My therapist does not understand me but your Forum does”  

"You have no idea. You’ve saved my life.”  

"I cannot tell you how blessed I felt to have someone I could talk to about this that has shared this experience."  

"The advice I received from the Founder about setting boundaries was a big help to my marriage."  

"The hour I spent speaking with you made me feel better than the year I spent in therapy." 

 "After my consultation, I realized my therapist was not the expert on cross dressers’ wives - the Founder is."  
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DONATIONS; VOLUNTEER 

We are a charitable, non-for profit organization. 

All donations are tax deductible. Presently, we rely almost solely on donations and grants to support our much-needed services. In difficult financial times, funds are short, limiting our ability to expand our Hotline and international outreach resources. 

Every dollar we raise can assist Cross Dressers Wives NPO develop worldwide programs for cross dressers wives seeking assistance and support.  

Please visit our links to purchase our book via PayPal only, make a financial contribution, or volunteer your services to help us assist women in dire need of support, education, acceptance, understanding, compassion, and guidance.  Many of us have lived in complete silence, denial, and guilt. This does not come without enormous consequences. Sometimes, it is simply comforting to know that we are not alone.  

There are millions of us in the United States and throughout the world whose unique needs must be met. All contributions are greatly appreciated.  For privacy purposes, donations made by check may be made payable to ‘CDW’ Or ‘CROSS DRESSERS WIVES.’ Credit card donations made via PayPal appear as ‘CDW.’

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Inspirational Quote…

“Intuition is not separate from life. To find it, you must fully enter life and learn to move as life moves.”The Intuitive Way: The Defining Guide to Increasing Your Awareness. Penny Pierce (2009) pg. 3)

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