TOPIC: DIVORCE: THE BEST REVENGE IS LIVING WELL & BEING HAPPY
DEE’S CORNER….
Chances are high, you tried EVERYTHING to get him to stop cross dressing and despite your efforts- nothing worked. From the moment you discovered you married a cross dresser-unknowingly- you have NEVER wanted anything to do with your husband’s physical feminine side. However, he purged so many times-you pulled “HER STUFF” out of the garbage because you could not afford to have him/her replace everything. So, you decided there is no other way: Divorce.
Divorce – by most standards is a dreadful process-but add cross dressing and it can get very nasty.
But do you have to be nasty? Follow him? Out Him? Trash him? Stalk him? Harass him? Go to his job? Tell his parents?
All of this aforementioned have been done to some cross dressers. Though I know the anger and rage -but this type of behaviors do not serve you. However-if you are under attack by him- THAT IS A DIFFERENT STORY- but you still have to strive to thrive-without him.
If you are seeking revenge- The Best Revenge is …living well and being happy!
Warmly,
Dee A Levy, MA
Tim’s corner…
Hejust shared his weekly wisdom with me. It is amazing that we are reaching people ALL OVER THE GLOBE!!! This is an exciting for us because we know that we are reaching more CDW and CD everyday! Tim has a lot of experience working with cross dressers.
Please feel free to contact him at Timcdfamilyadvisor@yahoo.com.
We love you Tim!!!
Questionnaire III is being constructed and we need your help again to complete more groundbreaking research on our needs as cross dressers wives. We want your input.
What do you want to learn more about and why?
Do you see a correlation to your current state of health as it relates to the being a cross dresser’s wife? Many wives have been diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). Furthermore, others have shared that they get more migraines, stress related illnesses that break down some of their immune systems because of the level of stress
So many of us go through, by living with a BIG secret.
Too frequently, there are many of us that had undergone some serious illnesses at young ages (like heart attack, strokes, etc.). We are going to explore this serious issue
Because we do experience a lot of STRESS.
Please let us know about your health concerns (if any).
Also-we are eager to learn what you want to know more about.
You are the EXPERTS And the GROUNDBREAKERS!
Thank you in advance for your much needed cooperation!
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GREAT NEWS: Questionnaire II UPDATE: It is completed! More news about the
results in 2014!!! We have a surprise coming!
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HOTLINE
Cross Dressers Wives NPO offers live telephone consultation services
With The Founder. She holds a BA in Women Studies, an M.A. in Social Sciences,
and has worked with thousands of cross dressers’ wives. The Founder is not a licensed therapist; she is a former cross dresser’s wife.
Additionally, Dee A Levy also consults with many cross dressers- most seeking advice on how to disclose their secret to their clueless wives. Please book your Hotline consultation by contacting cdwives@gmail.com.
The basic fee is $50 an hour. The first 30 minutes are free.
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HOTLINE TESTIMONIALS
“I have been in counseling for years and things only got worse. After talking to Dee,
I realized she could help me because she understood the problem and my challenges. Thank you Dee.”
“When I read the book with my cross dressing husband, we both cried! It was so helpful
to first read the book- then consult with Dee” “ understood how much my husbands
CD hurt me so much. I was relieved.”
“You are the only person I trust”
“My therapist does not understand me but your Forum does”
"You have no idea. You’ve saved my life.”
"I cannot tell you how blessed I felt to have someone I could talk to about this that has
shared this experience."
"The advice I received from the Founder about setting boundaries was a big help to my marriage."
"The hour I spent speaking with you made me feel better than the year I spent in therapy."
"After my consultation, I realized my therapist was not the expert on cross dressers’
wives - the Founder is."
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DONATIONS & VOLUNTEERS
We are a charitable, non-for profit organization.
All donations are tax deductible. Presently, we rely almost solely on donations and grants
to support our much-needed services. In difficult financial times, funds are short, limiting
our ability to expand our Hotline and international outreach resources.
Every dollar we raise can assist Cross Dressers Wives NPO develop worldwide programs for cross dressers wives seeking assistance and support.
Please visit our links to purchase our book via PayPal only, make a financial contribution,
or volunteer your services to help us assist women in dire need of support, education, acceptance, understanding, compassion, and guidance. Many of us have lived in
complete silence, denial, and guilt. This does not come without enormous
consequences.
Sometimes, it is simply comforting to know that we are not alone.
There are millions of us in the United States and throughout the world whose unique
needs must be met. All contributions are greatly appreciated. For privacy purposes, donations made by check may be made payable to ‘CDW’ Or ‘CROSS DRESSERS WIVES.’ Credit card donations made via PayPal appear as ‘CDW.’
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Inspirational Quote…
“Certain springs are tapped only when we are alone… women need solitude in order to find again the true essence of themselves, that firm strand which will be the indispensible center of a whole web oh human relationships.”
By
Anne Morrow Lindbergh
