Cross Dressers Wives November 2013 Newsletter

Topic of the Month:  Thanksgiving

 

 

Dee’s Corner…. Thanksgiving means many things to different people. The connotations of Thanksgiving are family get togethers, having a fabulous Turkey dinner, football games, but most of all it is a time to give thanks, have gratitude for what we have.

 

It is highly likely that your home might be disrupted by family members and out of town guests which can cause your CD husband to become very anxious- especially the ones who are used to frequently CD. You might notice he is growing more frustrated, anxious etc. Try to have a plan in place of how you are going to handle this as a couple or just a plan for your own sanctity.

 

I give thanks to all of you. Though we may have our differences, I love each and every one of you in a special way. May you have a nice holiday! Happy Thanksgiving!

 

Xox,

Dee

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Tim’s Corner…

Happy Thanksgiving to all of you! Please know holidays can be rough times for all. If you need to reach me please do so at timcdfamilyadvisor@yahoo.com!

 

Best,

Tim

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Questionnaire II UPDATE 

 

A psychological scientific journal article is going to disclose the results of our survey, conducted by Dr. Richard Docter and Dee A Levy, MA.

 

Over the past year nearly 300 wives of cross dressers have completed this survey, 

making it the largest group ever to participate in a wives study of this kind. Thanks 

to each of you! If you have not responded to Questionnaire II please do so, and be sure to respond to all of the questions. We are starting to analyze the survey data and the results will be made available on this web site. 

 

Additionally, a more formal report will be submitted to one of the scientific journals concerned with transgender studies, such as the International Journal of Transgenderism or the Archives of Sexual Behavior. The main focus of additional research will involve asking wives in more detail about how they are coping 

with cross dressing. Of course, we'll be inviting each of you to join us in these on-going research projects. 

 

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HOTLINE   Cross Dressers Wives NPO offers live telephone consultation services 

with The Founder. She holds a BA in Women Studies, an M.A. in Social Sciences, 

and has worked with thousands of cross dressers’ wives. The Founder is not 

a licensed therapist; she is a former cross dresser’s wife. 

 

Additionally, Dee A Levy also consults with many cross dressers- most seeking advice on how to disclose their secret to their clueless wives.  Please book your Hotline consultation by contacting cdwives@gmail.com.

 

 The basic fee is $50 an hour. The first 30 minutes are free.  

 

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 HOTLINE TESTIMONIALS 

 

“I have been in counseling for years and things only got worse. After talking to Dee, I realized she could help me because she understood the problem and my challenges. Thank you Dee.”

 

“When I read the book with my cross dressing husband, we both cried! It was so helpful to first read the book- then consult with Dee” “ understood how much my 

husbands CD hurt me so much. I was relieved.”

 

 “You are the only person I trust” “My therapist does not understand me but your Forum does”  "You have no idea. You’ve saved my life.”  "I cannot tell you how blessed I felt to have someone

 

 I could talk to about this that has shared this experience."  "The advice I received from the Founder about setting boundaries was a big help to my marriage."  

 

"The hour I spent speaking with you made me feel better than the year I spent 

in therapy." 

 

 "After my consultation, I realized my therapist was not the expert on cross dressers’ wives - the Founder is."  

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 DONATIONS; VOLUNTEER We are a charitable, non-for profit organization. 

All donations are tax deductible. Presently, we rely almost solely on donations and grants to support our much-needed services. In difficult financial times, funds are short, limiting our ability to expand our Hotline and international outreach resources. 

Every dollar we raise can assist Cross Dressers Wives NPO develop worldwide programs for cross dressers wives seeking assistance and support.  

 

Please visit our links to purchase our book via PayPal only, make a financial contribution, or volunteer your services to help us assist women in dire need of support, education, acceptance, understanding, compassion, and guidance.  Many of us have lived incomplete silence, denial, and guilt. This does not come without enormous consequences. Sometimes, it is simply comforting to know that we are not alone.  

 

There are millions of us in the United States and throughout the world whose unique needs must be met. All contributions are greatly appreciated.  For privacy purposes, donations made by check may be made payable to ‘CDW’ Or ‘CROSS DRESSERS WIVES.’ Credit card donations made via PayPal appear as ‘CDW.’

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INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES

"Friendship is thinking of the other person first." George Alexiou